Friendship..

Everyone of us should have a lot of friends, and also difference kind of friends. I quite easy to get friend with other, because i can easily have some topics with people around me and I always put a smile on face to get closer with people around me. No matter where i going to, smiling is best communication tool to bring other get closer to you. At least it happen to me nearly every country i had went before, UK, Germany or Sweden. I feel the important of smiling especially in Sweden, a country that English is not so popular. People working around me do not have high education, and only language they used to speak is Swedish. But a simple smile bring us together and we try to chat with each other with his limited English word and my extra limit Swedish (use guessing). How powerful of a smile. Anyway, people like this around us, do we consider it as friend? Maybe we had a common term for them, hi/bye group. We meet a lot people around us everyday, working colleagues, taxi driver or even someone from bus station. But mainly all those friendship is short term and not stable.
Actually my initial topic for today is 'I'm who I'm' to continue yesterday topic 'So what, I'm who I'm'. But today i chat with a friend with i feel I had lost contact even she still in my msn list. It trigger me to think further on my friendship life with people around me, which is short and still need more time to develop. I know i very poor to maintain a friendship even though I had a lot of friends around me from time to time, but i still don't have a friendship that really long lasting (more than 8 years). A friend which i get to know during SPM holiday job and still keep in touch should be my oldest friend i had at the moment. That's why I really admire those people got pure and true friendship growth up with them together, share the sweet moment and cry together with them. They have same history and friendship that hard to break. Now, I really feel that develop a sincere and true friendship really harder than develop a banking system. :s
I get a good formula from friend today on how to calculate a perfect life, which is perfect life = family + health + love + career + friend. We try to find out why we not satisfy with our current situation from this formula and I quite agree with this formula, friend no doubt is important part to make our life perfect and meaningful. At the moment, career still is my weakness link to cause my life broken. although i do not have long lasting friend with me at the moment, but i believe there is someone around me more than worth for me to maintain and keep as true friend. I feel lucky to meet all those friends and I'll appreciate it. This time, I'll not let a item to perfect my life let go as what i has miss out last time!!!