缘+分..

I all the while use a wrong term, 缘分 I had write it as 缘份. Anyway, do you believe 缘分? When 2 people from difference world meet each other, we call it 缘. When they meet at right time and right environment, we add a 分 behind so that they can continue growth their relationship. But when they meet at the wrong timing or environment, we also add 分 behind, but with 2 more words in between to separate them, 有缘无分.

Sometime people experience few relationship until they get give other an impression, '花心'. But how can one know when they will meet the right one and cash it out? If no one can answer this question, why people can't change to the one they like the most when they meet one after they are in relationship? I heard a story on this, love is like picking stone from a one way street, once you picked a stone, that is represent you had choose your love, the rule is no U-turn, only one stone can be picked and you can't re-pick. Some people had pick the stone before walk on this road, it mean that you had choose one before you understand what is love. Some pick too early and they regret when they found a better one later. Some keep think they might meet someone better later and they had miss the one they had love the most until they simply take one when they reach the end of road. Some they choose to pick nothing because they know they had miss. And only small portion of people lucky to choose the one they love the most. Which group of people are you in?

Actually no matter which group you are, put in effort to build up the strong relationship is only way to keep a relationship. True love will not drop from sky, we need to work hard to get what we wanted it to be and enjoy the fruit later. 祝有情人终成眷属。